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For references to Liberia, you can watch “Lord of War” and “Blood Diamond” again :)
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There is a Chinese restaurant in Monrovia, Liberia, that is way overpriced but wildly popular, not least because there is little competition. The UN Peacekeeping Force was a regular guest, and Hu Jin Tao dined there during his state visit. The owner of this restaurant is very kind and most helpful to all his compatriots who come to Monrovia, but he is also as lebensmüde as he is business-savvy. His is the incredible story of a Chinese man who made his home in Liberia, a country so conflict-ridden that Cameroon, relatively speaking, is more like a Canada; only in Canada's case, it is the Francophones who dream of independence from the Anglophones.
As a foreigner, running your restaurant where a UN Peacekeeping Force is stationed probably means you should have evacuated long before they even decided to come. But some people don't mind danger. Liberia isn't the safest place today; however, violence there was especially bloody and psycho until the last civil war ended in 2003. Soldiers had worn Mickey Mouse masks playing 'guess the sex' of unborn babies before cutting their mothers open to see, and road blocks came with stretched human intestines to indicate that robbing would take place and that it was advisable to put up no resistance.
Yet even under such horrifying circumstances was the restaurant's owner able to set up shop. In fact, his entrepreneurial skills extend beyond the restaurant business. Originally, he came to Liberia as a medical aid worker on a mission that was part of a government program. When the situation got out of hand and rebels closed in on Monrovia, the capital city, even the embassies evacuated. But he decided to stay. From that point onward, he as a businessman would rely on his sneakiness and luck to survive.
He managed to hide and stay away from the constant fighting. And to avoid being robbed, he claimed to be guarding embassy property on behalf of the Chinese government. As luck would have it, heavily armed rebels understood the political implications, and chose to move on. Construction machinery left behind by the embassy no longer had a rightful owner and were now his. These he cleverly hid in a barn in the countryside, only to make full use of them when fighting stopped and peacekeeping troops provided a minimum level of security and stability again.
Civil war resulted in the destruction or disappearance of virtually everything that was valuable. By this time, much of the country needed to be rebuilt and the Chinese Man was 'the guy' with the equipment required for big construction jobs. On one occasion, a ship had sunk just off the coast, and only with his rentable crane and some improvising were people able to retrieve the ship.
So he prospered and began selling rice and other commodities, as well, to Liberians and foreign peacekeeping troops alike, making fortunes in a country where for decades, the people lived a nightmare and did little but fight or fear for their lives. TIA!
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- Some details excerpted from Robert Guest's "The Shackled Continent", a provocative and disturbingly wonderful book on Africa.
- Charles Taylor, the ruthless warlord who last controlled and raped Liberia, is now on trial in the Hague.
- AC Milan footballing legend George Weah lost the 2005 general election to a Harvard-graduated former Citibank and World Bank economist who has since governed the country with more dignity.
Liberia is one of only two countries that began as a colony with the sole purpose of accommodating (unwelcome) former slaves. They would rule over the 95% majority of local inhabitants after Liberia was abandoned and quickly declared independent when it became a financial burden to the U.S. The only other such country is neighboring Sierra Leone, formerly Freetown, a British Crown Colony.
Of course, he did not actually make that suggestion.. It would take longer than a week.
Bo. works and lives here in Yaounde. But back in his hometown, his neighbors are the 500+ members of his father's side of the family. A couple of streets further lives his mother's side of the family, a community of some 700+ relatives. So apart from being my friend, I have a good reason not to get into a fight with him.
Typical of non-Western societies, distant relatives here remain very close. Truly, family comes first. Man first took care of his family and his family of him, long before modern society created a system he could rely on and thrive in. It only makes sense that family ties are especially strong in an underdeveloped country where the unemployment rate is astronomical (40-50% now, maybe) and countless people live in poverty. A social welfare system seems more like a fantasy than a realistic goal.
Cameroon's population has doubled in the past 20 years and overpopulation will continue to make life difficult for the average citizen. Personally, I find it harder now to bluntly say they only have themselves to blame. It would be implying to neighbors, colleagues and other people I have grown to like that the very existence of their many, dearly loved siblings and kids are for the greater bad, that this is a disaster in the making. Sometimes, when looking at the big picture, you think you know what's right and wrong - but once you take a closer look or things get personal, you and your rationale are easily overwhelmed. The consequences are ruinous but gradual and broad so that the individual hardly sees them until it's late. And until that tipping point is reached and the individual recognizes that choosing to have 5 to 10 kids contributes to a vast and growing problem, it will be the most wonderful thing in the world to be part of a big family and have as many little ones as he/she can raise comfortably. Maybe it's one of those things that can't be left to the individual, and requires governments or other organizations to take action. But at most, population control is enforced at country level. Will population growth ever be addressed as a global issue before it's too late? Though fundamental, it is too wide-ranging and divisive an issue for the world to reach a consensus and start a cooperative effort to limit fertility rates, isn't it? But must the human race not try to control world population growth for its own good? It touches on economic, environmental, religious, ethical and political issues. Should certain countries not be allowed to catch up a little? China and India dominate the world in numbers.. 37% is enough to win a general election in some places. Is it even a big deal, will wars and diseases not serve as a counterbalance? Will our carrying capacity increase indefinitely? Are we not refraining from effectively preventing more tragic deaths that are the result of famines and a shortage of clean water, especially in Africa? Am I being ridiculous, drifting off to asking such questions?
This is weird, but give it up for the West, where they stopped having legions of babies first.*
I don't know if the size of Bo.'s extended family is the norm or if it is unusually big. Hearing about it not only got me thinking about how very busy everyone must be, but also reflecting on how family members grow estranged more easily in a modern, globalized world. Cultural traditions, regular reunions and the tireless diplomats within families can hardly negate the effects that increased mobility and financial independence for individuals has on family ties. Friends begin to play a bigger role in everyday life, family a smaller one. In Eastern societies, this trend isn't as apparent as it is in the West yet. But even if the central role of the family is rooted in mainstreamed Chinese philosophy, it may just be a matter of time. Then again, I might be overly pessimistic on this one; bitter, from witnessing firsthand how family members drift apart.
Meanwhile, it is worth noting how popular the term "brother" really is among blacks. In Bo.'s case, it makes things much more convenient. There are so many brothers, half-brothers, and cousins around all the time that it's easier to just call everyone brother. They take it to the next level by calling all their friends and acquaintances brothers as well, along with every one of their 同乡, people from the same town or region, who are likely third or fourth or fifth cousins. It becomes entirely impossible to tell what is their relation when someone says he "has a brother who could help out". At the same time, this indicates how many connections a person typically has, which are crucial here to survival and getting anything done.
Actually introducing someone to my family wouldn't take quite as long, it only involves an awful lot of traveling. But there's fun in that, too.
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